Fix appearance of dispatching FI failed because of thrift frame is oversize

[Wei-hao-Li]

before: unecessary retry & misunderstanding errMsg

now: no retry & clear errMsg

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
2 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 28.00000% with 18 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 39.80%. Comparing base (ce103a3) to head (806fc87).
⚠️ Report is 4 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../org/apache/iotdb/rpc/TElasticFramedTransport.java	30.76%	9 Missing ⚠️
...plan/scheduler/FragmentInstanceDispatcherImpl.java	0.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
...e/iotdb/rpc/TCompressedElasticFramedTransport.java	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@             Coverage Diff              @@
##             master   #17536      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     39.86%   39.80%   -0.06%     
  Complexity      312      312              
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  Files          5137     5142       +5     
  Lines        347310   347883     +573     
  Branches      44268    44400     +132     
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+ Hits         138444   138489      +45     
- Misses       208866   209394     +528     

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